Busy

It is that time of the year again. I have renewed my qualifications with the college, I have attended a few meetings and I have had to let go one of my volunteer positions I have considered, due to lack of time. I have many interests and I must admit I never volunteer but seem to get volunteered a lot. I am only one person and have to focus on my two businesses and their operation which keeps me busy enough. Unfortunately the web is open to scams and somehow my books and ebooks are being sold without my authorization. I live and learn so I will have to determine if it is worth having ebooks. I encourage people wanting my books or ebook to buy directly on my web site - www.silvaredigonda.com. Unfortunately because the web site is American based, dollars are American and the postage is not from Canada Post. That is another problem and once this expires I need to find something Canadian, so I can add Canada Post. Unfortunately, when I tried to determine how to add them to my site, the person was reading from a book. Canada Post - you need to hire IT people in this day and age. People may contact me directly to determine postage and cost to any country. I do things by the book. If you are in Toronto, you may pick up a book at my office. I am into 70 pages of my second draft. It can be confusing when you are editing and doing other things as well, but hopefully after my second vetting, I will be good to go. I cannot go over something over and over again. If I do it becomes work and is no longer fun. Today is a beautiful day at 15 degress which is obviously due to global warming. They have discovered a new galaxy I believe with 7 planets much like our own with their own sun. There is so much excitement and fortunately it would take about 700,000 years to get there, so they are safe from us. At least that is what the local news broadcasted minus they are safe from us. I added that part. We cannot even get along on our planet and are slowly or rapidly destroying it so if there is life anywhere else, they would be best to block us, from finding them, until we smarten up. Good luck with that. I have been hearing a lot about anti Muslim and anti Jews in Toronto lately and that is very sad indeed. I had actually thought we had achieved equality. Silly me. So, hang in there as I complete my final draft ( I am at page 70 and it really should not be a final draft but what the heck). Live dangerously when you write. So now if you want to write a story, please sit down and write it. I do not know how many people I have encountered who want to write and haven't. Do it. It's fun. Find that 30 minute or less to just write. If you do not want to write a story, you may consider writing a journal. That is very therapeutic. Bear with me for a few weeks more and then I will get back to writing my notes for you. Remember if you want to ask me anything, just write a note below and I will get it and respond. No charge. I am also available to communities, churches, schools etc....to speak about counselling/psychotherapy/pastoral etc..... Hey, if you have a bookstore, I am more than interested in selling my books and signing. I love that. So, til next week, have fun! Keep healthy! What do you think?

Completed writing book (draft), Happy Valentine and Veterans consider me for support group.

I am surprised at how much work I can complete in a relatively short time. I wrote my third book and that is very exciting for me. I had been sitting on it for a bit because life happens and I do write for fun. However, I did it. Now I just have to re-read it all, correct it, and make improvements where ever, I think it needs it. So, that will still be my focus for a bit before I begin to write out my psychology and theology notes for you again. It is amazing how many mistakes I find, every time I read over a paragraph. I can only get better - so no worries. I renewed my registration for my college and I paid for my spot at "Word on the Street." I am optimistic that my book will be published by then. While writing my book, I thought of two more murder mysteries. This is so much fun! However, I do think it is best that I write a book about psychotherapy, while I'm young. I am reaching out to veterans in the Toronto area again so I can start my support group. I would like two more to begin. Remember I am taking names. I wish you all a wonderful Valentine's Day. This is a day that I encourage you to do something no matter how small for someone to brighten their day. It is amazing how a small gesture of kindness can warm a heart. Don't forget to do something for yourself. What do you think?

Update - 3rd book

I must admit, I do love to write stories. I am at page 152. I am hoping to build suspence at this point in time. Hey, I am feeling the suspence, so that is a good sign. As I reveiw my work and new thoughts pop into my mind, I make changes or decide to take a different route. People I have planned to die, I think they should probably live, so I can use them again in a sequence, if people like this book. I also get to like some of the characters and want them to live. It is fiction coming alive as I give them lives in my head. I am surprised at how much I get done in an hour. Sometimes I cheat and go overtime. When I am at a book sale, I often get people who want to know about writing. Sometimes it is a parent asking questions because he or she has an child who loves to write. I am certainly no expert with one or two fans. However, if writing is your passion, just do it. Don't worry how it is going to look. If you have an idea, go for it. Put it in writing. Idealy, as I have said before, I would be away somewhere and just focus on this book. I would love to just write in the morning, go out and have a long walk, and maybe return to write some more. In a few years, I may do just that. However, right now my first priority is me and my family, my clients second (I need to take care of me so I can take care of them) and 3rd my books. Of course my friends are right up there too. I have noticed that my second book is much better than my first. I hope this one will be even better. Wish me luck. If you want to try something - go for it. Having a hobby that relaxes you and makes you happy is beneficial. What do you think?

Sad week in Canada with Muslim killing - and update about book

It has been very sad regarding the killing of six men in Quebec, who while praying and standing were shot in the back. Why? - For the sole reason of being of Muslim faith. I never thought that would happen in my country. One act is one too many. Now children will grow without a father and women will have to struggle without their husbands. It is ironic that only the night before the killings, I was standing behind a Muslim woman at Tim Horton's. She was happy and carefree and I was pleased that in this country she can be so without fear. I was heartbroken the next day. Of course, whenever these senseless acts happen, it only brings the country and world together. I think we live in a very troubled world. We should be moving forward and not backwards. There should be always a zero tolerance for any type of racism. Everyone is a human being and should be afforded the same opportunities and respect. I am so sorry that the children have to grow up in this country knowing that their fathers were killed for no reason except prejudice. What is prejudice but mere ignorance. We need to work to move forward. My prayers are with the families concerned. Regarding my third book, I had to miss today, and the day of the killings, however, I have been working one hour a day on it quite faithfully. I have 80 pages done. I have made adjustments and corrections and am throwing in a few cues here and there. I love my characters and I think they like me too. So, til next week, please think of someone who may be suffering and say something nice and supportive to them. Surround yourself with things you love and perhaps be a tad nicer to someone who needs it. What do you think?

Update - Working on third book

I know I promised you that I would be writing about pedophiles today after checking up resources. However, I have to suspend my writings for all that, except for what I am focusing on at this time aside from my private practice. I had planned to take a three week vacation and to work solely on my third book for my one or two fans. However, that is not practical and if I don't start dedicating some time for my book, than it will not be completed. So, I am doing my best to make this work by writing about one hour a day. Today I spent several hours, on it, but went back to the beginning of my work, to change the spelling of one character's name. As I am doing this, I decided to use another pattern, to initiate more suspense. This book is about a nasty serial killer in Toronto. A teaser is at the back of my second book. I am now changing the teaser slightly. I think I am a better writer each time, I write another book. I will not be ignoring you as that simply is not nice after you continue to read my blogs. So, hopefully I can generate some interest as I inform you weekly of where I am at in my third book without giving too much away of the meat and potatoes so to speak. My next books after that will be one on therapy so to speak and another on spirituality/religion. Those I will not have to change what I write here for you because it does not need the same type of focus. However, this book is all about my imagination and it is purely fiction. So, please do not stop reading me, but come along for the ride. I need to stay fresh and focused on my characters. Ideally, I like to write in the morning and then clear my head, but this will not always be possible. So, I am not going to thank you for your patience, because I normally find that phrase most annoying. Perhaps you are not patient, but I hope you can be with me. Wish me luck with this book. It is my most fun and creative side, me thinks, with a deadly edge. Holy Terror, my cat is one of the characters. She insisted. Have a fun week and do something you love to do! What do you think.

Scams, scams, and why my books???????

It seems there is so much fraud going on these days and it does get tiresome. I have never made a profit selling my books. I will continue to write them because I love to write as some of you know. I am quite proud that I have two fans and now maybe only one. I am almost an open book you may say. It gets tiresome, weekly getting emails from companies or imposters seeking employment for me. I am not interested and do not even open the attachments, so please stop annoying me. Even though I have indicated on my web site that I am willing to work one or two days, that would be only for emergency services personnel. I have an office and everyone may come to me. I have my fee and am not interested in all those rediculous emails, that only wastes my time when I press the delete button. I suggest the same to you who are honest out there. As for my books and ebooks. The only authorized departments to sell my books or ebooks is me at www.silvaredigonda.com (my website), KOBO, Military Police Kit and that is it. My first book is at Eglinton and Yonge and St Clair and Yonge. My second book is not in any stores. That hasn't been without trying. These are the times and trials. They are selling my books on line in the States for a rediculous amount of money and they are offering downloads for free again in the States. However, you have to register and I suggest you do not. I have requested for it to stop and of course that has been totally ignored. Do you really want to give those people hiding behind computers your financial information to buy what they should not be selling? If they are stealing from me, do you think they would stop there? So, if you want to buy my book, please buy it from me, where I get all the funds or the others where they get the bulk. I do make a profit from my first book but not my second unless it is the download. Tomorrow, I want to go back to my third book. I can delay no longer. I have to give it at least one hour a day preferably at the start of the day. First I have to re-read everything I wrote and examine my white board to refresh my stale memory. Then once I have it all instilled in my brain, I will focus on the climax and ending. I will keep you briefed. Next week I want to write about something I read this morning about pedophiles. I am going to try to find the source of the article. I find I am more relaxed about writing on my blog, than I ever would writing a formal paper. Then I will return to my psych notes as well. Have a nice day, be kind to yourself, lift your chin up and smile (no fake smiles please) and please do not buy my books or ebooks from people who cannot write themselves and try to make money from others.

Dialogue Decalogue - discussion not debate -theology notes

How to write a paper - First there is a method. If you want to write a paper regarding Christians and Jews and you want a Christian perspective - pay attention and give app to prevent other view and then base conclusion for both. Lonergan - First you need data. Then you need understanding followed by judgement and decision. You need to examine both sides of issues. Anti-Semitism - conflict between church and synagogue. Further got away from the death of Jesus, the more problems. Retrojection rather than historical account. Why did Jesus die? There is suggestion that it was written so that Romans would not look bad. The Pharisees were arguing for persons in the community. From the standpoint of the Pharisees, Jesus never answered where persons start - community and vice versa. Where did the Pharisees go? No temple, no job. They fell with the temple. Fathers - 70 A.D. Punishment of God because of crucification of Jesus. Israel offends God. He who consults and hates……(GM) 2nd century, Jesus does the same to God Deicide. 3rd century Tertulliar - anti-Semitism building into 3rd century. 4th - Hippotas - God put curse, because killed Jesus - wander homeless til the end of time. Why has not the Vatican recognized the state of Israel? Not to go against the church fathers. Recognized state of Israel in 1993 for political reasons; not theological. Eupetfis Caesuric - JC. Luthur - venemous beasts. Presbyterian - most worse jobs for Jews. Christians put Jews in Gettos without a church. Hitler would not be possible. Hitler pointed out that he was doing what the Christians were doing for 1500 years. Fathers: Emancipation of the Jews. 18th century (Enlightenment) 2nd half of the 18th century - Church opposed human rights. Church argued to give rights to humans is to take rights away from God. 1862 - Church recognized rights of human. France was first place for hints of rights in 1776. Declaration 1789 of rights of man. This had little effect on the treatment of Jews. 1791 - Jews were given political freedom in France, but still there was prejudice. Dreyfus Affair - (Tales of two cities by Dickens). - was imprisoned, Jewish, plea for innocence. 2. Country - Prussia - Frederick William 3rd; 1858 - England; 1838 (Black slavery stopped) Russia - 1917 - Jews get equality. From the Middle Ages to Enlightenment Jews lived in Ghetto. They learned to survive which is why they are so good now. 2000 years they have been pounded upon. 7% Orthodox Jews. Muslims - 3% of Philippines are Muslim. Muslims suffered as well by Christians there. When Prof was in the Philippines, Muslims were living in the “sticks” No one with a Muslim name could find work. 1980 began change. Next : Theological issues