Warning about Publishers Clearing House scam

Weekly Thoughts - blah Home Show; Word On the Street - Skipping this year in all probability

It has been one of those weeks. One day it is a snow storm and the next it is sunny and of course it takes my breath away. I am sick of winter which seems to drag on mercilessly. I think I prefer cold, cold cold without the ups and downs but of course with global warming this will only continue mercilessly. I did go to the Home Show and found it was very slow without the usual booths I was looking for. Michael Pape Art Inc was there and I enjoyed talking to the Artist. His work is amazing and his love for wild life is amazing. However, I cannot afford his work and I really don't have any more space on my walls at the moment. I did buy a 50. T shirt, but funds go to support the wild life. I did find starbucks coffee and I had a delicious bagel with salmon, pimentos and the works. But, there were no flowers in bloom which I was really looking forward to. The information booth person told me that people don't want to work. I kind of find that hard to believe. Forever the skeptic. Regarding Word on the Street, I have been going every year it was open since I wrote Hey Guy Buy Me. But this year the price is crazy. I would have to take the full two days, rather than one which would cost $850.00. for just a small booth which would be half the size I had last year. The price has gotten c-r-a-z-y. I have a few faithful fans each year and I thank you so much. I haven't published my last book yet which I had been hoping to but I am doing things differently this year. I have joined different writing associations and Authors are amazing people. They share and provide tips and so I am learning more as times goes on regarding the business side of the house. I have not accepted any offers I have received because I think I can do better. However, I have not sent out as many as I should. So I am trying to focus on doing that, but I must admit I am not really interested in that part. I love to write stories but I have come to realize that there is a business side of the house. Publishers seem to being doing less and wanting more and authors are beginning to notice. Stephen King thank you for speaking out on behalf of all of us. York University Retirees are considering having an authors day and I will certainly go to that if they have it. I belong to the Sisters of Crime and if they get a booth at Word on the Street, I will certainly go and it would be free for me. I haven't been an active participant due to other obligations. It is all a work in progress as I learn and share. I want to thank all the people who have bought my books and ebooks directly from me. I appreciate it. I love meeting people at book signing opportunities and when they return I am completely in awe of the support. For now, another week has sped by and I am having difficulty using the brakes. There is so much to do in one lifetime. Have a good weekend. I am also trying to spend as much as possible with Mr Attitude because he seems to need me more, now that Holy Terror is in heaven. Just the other day I found a statue of a cat with wings at HOme Sense. It was made in China but I did it anyway. I will bring it outside in the Spring and place it near flowers. www.silvaredigonda.ca

Research Studies Reflection from a pastoral perspective (theology ) paper

Research Studies Reflection Silva Redigonda Reflection Paper Three Research is such an important aspect of psychology in Canada that at present, there is no psychology degree program that paves a way, without an extensive incorporating program of both statistics and research methods. I have no interest in conducting research because my focus is counselling. However, I acknowledge the importance of research in all my work and am hesitant when statistics and research information is not provided in my learning formation. I think that counsellors and psychotherapists need to have an extensive knowledge of data that has been tested to determine what is best for each client. This paper is one of reflection, and not analytical, I will compare two researches journals, one written by Gubi and the other by Carlson and Erikson and reflect on the importance of objectivity. When reading Carlson’s and Erikson’s paper, I paused wondering if it was a philosophical paper. Key words that I read were repeated throughout the paper, “we believe.., we feel…, we wish…, we have heard…we hold…what we are calling for…we do not believe…” What I heard was subjectivity. Yet, the paper’s format included an abstract and provided a format equivalent to a research journal. Perhaps, I am restricting myself, by being so critical. As this is a reflection paper, I am permitted to ponder but as a student, I also need to evaluate what may be a hindrance, in how my profession as a pastoral counsellor is perceived by professionals, of other disciplines. Reading Gubi’s paper, I immediately feel more comfortable with the objectivity and professionalism of the writing. Gubi provides research sources for his study, while evaluating the benefits and problems that can and have occurred, as it pertains to praying. In contrast, Carlson and Erickson (1999) offer united, extensive, personal beliefs enforced, by the inclusive term of “we”. This stream of personal beliefs overshadows any objectivity. Carlson and Erickson are encouraging personal exploration, in presently deficient training programs (p 58). There seems to be an assumption that the reader is aware of what the training program is. There are so many questions and possibilities to explore. Gubi however, is methodical and systematical in his approach. His purpose is clear, precise and contained, “The purpose of the research was to discover if counsellors who use prayer were aware of, or encountered, ethical problems with their use of prayer” (p 116). As I read each paper, I wonder if Carlson’s and Erikson’s paper published in 1999 is perhaps too dated (p 57) compared to Gubi’s more recent paper, presented in 2009. Does this indicate a progression of sophistication or am I missing something very important? Is it possible, that Carlson and Erikson are presenting a paper that is quite acceptable and I am unfamiliar with? After all, there may be an assumption that I am failing to understand. References are indicated to support statements. But even the references that Carlson and Erikson provide, seem outdated and too lengthy for a paper. Is it necessary to provide 14 references, for one statement especially when it dates from 1978 (p 59)? Is it not more practical to limit references, and to provide the latest information, unless it has a bearing to what the author, wants the reader to know? Carlson and Erikson have something very important to say. An example is that “a therapist will choose a theory that is compatible with his or her own values and world view” (p 59). Again, three references are provided. Rather than look up the references, I would prefer to read how this conclusion was determined. Was this statement based on research or is it also the opinions of the authors referenced? There is ambiguity, when there need not be. This takes away from the purpose of the paper. Gubi is clear in what he wants to project to the reader. He provides easily understood results from the format he uses, such as a table to provide a code for the type of psychological approach used, as well as the gender and qualification of the counsellor. Titles provide a guide for referral, such as “prayer results that can change the way the counsellor is regarded” (p 116). Carlson and Erickson also provide a table, listing the five stances therapists commonly take (p 71). It provided me with the same sense of objectivity as that of Gubi. But it was listed towards the end of the paper and I felt it came a little too late. It is obvious that I have a preference and respect for Gubi’s research article. Unfortunately, I do not feel the same for Carlson’s and Erikson’s paper. Perhaps, it is because I do not understand what kind of paper it is. Perhaps I am assuming that it is not well written, when it may be. Perhaps, I need to be more open to what I read and less critical. Carlson and Erikson are calling for “an integration of personal and theoretical beliefs, for the development of personal ethics” (p 63). This is exactly what I am doing. Carlson and Erikson probably did not presume to have their own paper so critically scrutinized, to support this claim. The points that Carlson and Erikson make are important, “We believe that a therapist should personally believe in the principles and values of the theory that is guiding their work” (p 63). What Carlson and Erikson has failed to do and where Gubi is successful, is convincing the reader by providing substance. Am I being subjective? I don’t think I am entirely. I think that if we are to be taken seriously in our profession, we need to meet a standard that is recognized by the medical field. It is in this reflection, that I realize what is important to me, as I provide a service to others. Science and theology need to be complementary of each other and not separate. Jesus lived among the people of their time. We need a balance of science and theology to be taken seriously. We need to work with professional structures already in place, as well as our hearts.

Hey Guy Buy Me ( This is my first book at only 9.95. I want to keep this Friday light.) Have a good weekend. www.silvaredigonda.ca

Chapter One PRESENTATION Ok men (don’t turn around, I am speaking to you. There is no one here except me and you or is it you and me?). Let us take a stroll down the street and gaze into the windows of shops. You will notice (let’s say it is a bakery) all sorts of treats. What is your preference? Look at what you find interesting. What do you prefer? Is it the appearance of good old fashion apple pie? Take a look at its form, fresh apples protruding from a browned flaky pie crust. Smell the aroma penetrating onto the outside air as the front glass door opens. Yes, good old fashion apple pie. Or, is it the taunting Tira mi su. Yes, with a hint of alcohol in between layers of melting biscuits and cream…….We can go on, and on. Do you get the point? Hey stop looking at the Cherry pie! You are so not there, yet. This is elementary. Don’t worry. I will explain. You are choosing what you want by what appeals to you and your senses. We are going to keep this simple because I don’t want to waste your time. The first thing you must do is make yourself desirable. Don’t laugh. I am serious. Remember when I said aroma…..senses…Yes, you should smell nice and clean all the time. Daily baths or showers are important. Now if you work hard all day and go home smelling like fish, you need to get that smell off you as best as you can. Don’t just accept it because it is part of your job or life or body odor. Find out how to make yourself smell nice and clean. Do you have a mom or sister who can help you with this? Ask her. Don’t just ask any girl (woman). Some women are not as honest as I am. They may be afraid to hurt your feelings (my sister is like that). That will not help you, will it? You will continue to smell badly and girls (women) will try to avoid you. Don’t ask your buddies either, unless you grew up with them, and they are honest with you. You are the competition! Yes, you are now the competition. Get over the loser part. You are going to be the man, when I am finished with you. www.silvaredigonda.ca

Letter for Minister Bennett to request stopping this inhumane treatment/slaughter of our beautiful horses https://www.horseshit.ca

The Hon. Carolyn Bennett House of Commons Ottawa, Ontario K1A 0A6 Dear Minister Bennett, I am writing today to draw your attention to an important issue - that of live horses being shipped as air cargo to Japan for slaughter. In December 2021, a mandate to ban this cruel practice was issued to the Agriculture Minister by PM Justin Trudeau. To date there is still no ban in place and the exports continue. Now is the time to ensure that this barbaric trade ends. I would like to see all parties pulling together to ban these horrific exports and, as my Member of Parliament in the riding of Toronto--St. Paul's, I ask for your support in helping to achieve this. The brutal practice of shipping live draft horses overseas as air cargo violates all decent animal welfare principles and it must stop. Please ask Agriculture Minister Marie-Claude Bibeau to do her job and follow through on the Prime Minister's mandate without further delay! The horses are terrified. They often fall over on take off and landing. Some horses arrive deceased. Imagine making a flight beside your dead comrade and having nowhere to step except on a carcass. They are deprived of food and water for up to 28 hours. They are crammed into small wooden crates and can’t move or lift their heads adequately. They spend countless hours waiting to be loaded and offloaded in horrendous weather conditions- extreme heat and extreme cold. This is a betrayal of the worst kind. Horses are our companions and they are taught to trust us. They’ve fought wars for us, ploughed our fields, pulled our wagons. And this is how we treat them? And that's not all. At the end of the overseas flight, the exported draft horses are at the mercy of the laws and policies of a foreign country - butchered and fed to people raw. Canada doesn't have to be complicit in this. It's time to bring an end to the betrayal and the cruelty! In 2021,nearly 78,000 Canadians called for an end to this trade by signing petition e-3187, sponsored by MP Nathaniel Erskine-Smith. Now a new petition, e-4190, initiated by singer/songwriter Jann Arden and sponsored by MP Alistair MacGregor, is online and rapidly collecting signatures. I look forward to your prompt response and a sincere promise from you that you will support an end to the exports of live horses for slaughter. Thank you. Yours truly, silva redigonda (https://www.horseshit.ca)

Weekly thoughts

I have attached an English paper and a proposal I once submitted successfully. I am still going through my paperwork carefully before discarding anything that may be useful to you. I attended an interesting talk from a professor at York University regarding books and am going to wait until the video is out and place it here for you. I attended another at York regarding body weight which was very interesting. I haven't sent my next book out to many publishers. I have received offers, but none that I am happy with. The professor said that authors are becoming more savy regarding offers (too bad we have to be). He also mentioned Stephen King complaining that offers are low/insufficient to make a living (which I mentioned to you). You should be able to see that one on line. I just mailed out a book yesterday to Eastern Canada and I was surprised that the book transport would be costing more than the book. I will incur some of that cost. Again Corporations want the money and hate sharing properly though they do not do anything creative themselves. Remember what I told you about the farmers? I did do my income tax but am still in the lookout for a learned accountant. I had a really nice guy doing it but he consistenly had to ask questions to someone senior which was disappointing because I knew the answers. I am not going to bang my head. The year has gone much too fast. Anyhow that is it for now. Take care and have a wonderful weekend. If you are interested in buying any of my books check out www.silvaredigonda.ca

BUISINESS PLAN FOR WOMEN FOCUSED PROGRAMS - feel free to use as a template

BUISINESS PLAN FOR WOMEN FOCUSED PROGRAMS By Silva Redigonda, Dated Executive Summary Women based programs will be implemented in partnership with female , staff and of …………community. Security needs and concerns will be examined to implement the empowerment of women by taking ownership of their security concerns. Mission Women of the community perceive ……… as a safe environment by addressing their concerns and ...... providing information to incorporate such perception. OUR KEYS TO SUCCESS Women issues will be addressed by considering and implementing the following: Continue being an active member of the ………. which has included ……. in the past Continue Women For Women where women receive information regarding ………department’s policies, referrals to other departments to deal with their specific concerns and reading material for women in a male free safe environment Proposal for a sexual assault course in conjunction with the ……… Networking with ………….. to determine what the concerns are and initiate programs to meet the demand ACTION PLAN There are two programs in effect, the ………..which I have been asked to stop being a participant upon approval of continuation and Women For Women which has never been offered full support in advertisement. It is proposed that Women for Women continue for another year where it will be afforded its due to succeed. A proposal for a sexual assault course will be forwarded for consideration. Networking has been an ongoing process. I have been and wish to continue being a representative from the ………. for meetings such as sexual assault response, women and safety and women’s s…….. committee. I have also been liaison in general for specific groups such as………………………. etc…where though many concerns have been about women this has not been exclusive. PERSONNEL Silva Redigonda with the assistance ………………… will be responsible for the establishment and maintaining of women based programs. Such programs such as the sexual assault course will be open to both men and women as will be the co-ordinators. Silva Redigonda will continue to act as ........ when timing permits. COST Cost is negotiable. There are women focused groups that will assist with cost if required. Women For Women beverages/ desserts will cost $71.88 weekly. Poster costs and handouts are approximately $500. Courses required will depend on the type, timing and available resources. Estimate is determined at $5000.