Thoughts of the Week

 I am still in the process of selling my home and therefore I cannot take on any new clients.  I am also still living in a staged house.  Not fun.  My stuff has been hidden away and just finding anything is a chore.  This was supposed to be a one week inconvenience and look what happened.  Still here.  Grateful, that I did not buy anything before selling.  Don't do it is my advice to you.  Sell, then buy.  I may have to take this off the market while Trump is in power because he is causing instability in the markets, thus the problem of selling my home.  Or, so I have been told by everyone who should know.  Oh boy, America did you vote for this?  Please say no.  My Pope, or should I say the people's Pope has also died.  He taught so much of building bridges and not walls.  He loved the people of the world.  Ukraine is still struggling as Russia continues to bomb it mercilessly.  On top of that Trump blames the victim.  It is Russia who is the aggressor but you know that, don't you.  Just like you would love to take Canada over.  This gets so tiresome.  Anyhow, I did manage to read an entire Peterson book yesterday and today is supposed to be a much needed sunny and warm day.  Yes, please.  I am grateful that I took out my summer wear  before the stage or I would have had to buy all new.  I still need a new dryer since mine broke down and that is impossible right at this moment.  One final reminder is that this Saturday I shall be selling my books at the legion, 31, on Weston Road, South of Eglinton.  This will probably be my last event there if I sell my house.  As will it be at Word on the street.  But then of course no one knows what will happen.   Trump, please take a holiday and let the economy calm down.  Wouldn't it be nice if the earth stood still and all wars stopped and dictators vanished because they started to care?  Terrorists would have no one to terrorize because they would be managed nicely in cells?  Wouldn't it be nice if we could all take a step back and see each others as reflections of ourselves?  Have a good weekend world.   What do you think?

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Holy Week

 

 Last Saturday night I went to Mass, attending a Portuguese mass.  It was merely convenience.  I had other plans for Sunday.  As you all know I injured my leg last summer, which caused me to pause serving as a Eucharistic Minister.  I use the term pause, because I am expected to return to serve.  However, it wouldn't be good if I slipped on the stairs to the altar and dropped all the hosts.  Nope.  So, it looks like my pause shall continue.   Last week I saw an Orthopaedic Surgeon.   I like the best of the best.  He was educated at Oxford or was it Harvard, both amazing universities.  Yes, he is British and was recommended by my Podiatrist, also an English veteran who told me to see him and even return to Toronto to see him, if I left (no one wants to buy my home yet.  Yup Trump's Tarrifs are scaring people here at home.  Good thing I don't have to sell, hey?). 

 Apparently, my limp is not only because of my right side injury but also my left hip.  Yup - full of arthritis.  "I have many military patients."  He stated.  "I'm sure."  I replied.  He gave me options and I chose the one which is to learn to live with it.  So when I went to mass, last Saturday night, I sat throughout the entire mass, except for when the Priest entered, left and when I went to receive communion.  It wasn’t until I left that I smiled at a member and wished her a Happy Easter (I knew I wouldn’t be at that mass, Easter.)  She pursed her lips so tight that a screw driver would be required to open her mouth.  She glared at me (such a good Catholic).  I could only surmise that she didn’t like my sitting or that I was wearing leggings or perhaps I didn’t please her in some way to justify - Judgement.  I accepted that she didn’t know any better.  I remember my military Priest friend and I having a conversation about Church goers:  Me:  “They are such hypocrites going to church and acting so prim and proper and they can be the worse.”  

 Father Ron, “Don’t you see, Silva, they are the ones who really need to go to church.”  

That was years ago.  I will continue to smile if I see her again and see what happens.  It is all about judgement again.  One thinking they know best, one thinking she is better - Clothes make the person (according to the Vice President?)  I do look at how people dress.  It tells me a lot.  It tells me if a person is sad, happy, enjoys dressing up and can he afford it?)  There are people who do not go to church because they feel they cannot dress appropriately. They are poor.   My advice - go to church if you want to.  I studied the various religions and cultures and sometimes, it is more about culture than religion.  Then there are the extremists.  Those who rape and torture and imprison women/men for not being of their religion and refusing to conform.  I am fortunate that living in Toronto, I have been able to provide therapy, to people from every organized world religion or not, probably every colour of skin and people of all status and education.  I have been in awe of what people suffer in conviction of their beliefs.  I have seen Christians opposing extremists and having suffered so much.  That is what our country is about and every person here in Toronto and the rest of the country, should be able to practise their religion and when there is hatred, that needs to be dealt with swiftly.  It is a crime - hate.  So again there is judgement.  I wouldn’t have a practice if people could just be kinder to others and stop acting as if they know what is best for others.  If others are not harming anyone, or anything, then leave them alone.  This is Holy Week.  Try to connect to God.  Find a way to connect to others.  Forgive.  “Forgive them Father for they know not what they do.”  I was told never to quote the bible, but hey, it’s Easter and sometimes well……..Have a Happy Easter Weekend.  

I will be selling my books. Bring cash please. Receipts provided. Can't seem to be able to work out square.

Joe Bell 2020 - Tubi

A while ago I watched this true story “of an Oregonian father who plays tribute to his teenage son, Jadin embarking on a self-reflection walk across America to speak to heartland citizens about the real and terrifying costs of bullying.”   I recommend it for all high schools.  Since my notes are hidden due to the staging of my home, now is the time to share. 

 I have changed names and a few other things to keep the people’s identity hidden.  

Myself and my fellow interns were provided with a tour of the hospital so we could decide where we wanted to work.  My heart was set on working in the ward for general medicine because I thought it would be the most interesting.  This was a ward where patients were waiting to be diagnosed.  It was during that tour that my mind changed because the head person of a ward told us we were needed.  No one was interested in working with HIV and so I volunteered, not because it was my choice, but simply because I was needed.  And so I was assigned to work with HIV and cancer patients as well as palliative care.  Now let me tell you about Phil.   I used to see Phil everywhere laying down on his portable bed, in the elevator, the hallway, and going to and from somewhere in the hospital.  I always talked to him about one thing or the other and never received a response, until I did.  We talked a bit and then I went to casually inform the Head, that the patient had spoken.  “That’s impossible.”  I was informed and off she went to confirm her theory.  She returned hyperventilating and excited.  “It’s a miracle!  He spoke.  He doesn’t.”

I asked about Phil’s family and she called the family to be let down.  She had spoken to Phil’s mother who wanted to know if he had insurance.  When she learned he didn’t have any money for her, she said she wasn’t interested in seeing her dying son.  You see, Phil was kicked out of the house when he was thirteen years old because he was gay.  I spent time with Phil after that and brought him a rosary because he told me he was Catholic.  When I gave him the rosary, his eyes lit up  and I never saw him without the rosary again.  It was a cheap rosary and I was chastised for giving away too many rosaries.  I immediately stated that I would initiate a fund raiser for rosaries which was dismissed immediately.  I continued to give out rosaries.  Phil had a brother and he suddenly showed up one day and provided him with the support he needed - family.  Since, in private practice I have seen quite a few people afraid of exposing their sexuality, mainly because of the fear of how their parents, fellow colleagues and society will react.  That is a heavy burden to carry.  I often tell clients, Toronto is the best place to be who they truly are but still they decide and it is their decision to remain in the closet so to speak.  They may be single or married but they are living with a weight that they cannot be themselves because of the judgment of others.  So please do watch Joe a father who loved his son so much that he began to walk across America because his son committed suicide.  I have never suffered so much as when I worked in that hospital.  I saw so much pain and I was working everyday for about six weeks which was too much without a break. Not only was I working at the hospital but also seeing clients on days I was free.   I wouldn’t do that to a student.  Of course I was seen as more than a student by my supervisor and he was right.  It is so easy to judge others who may be different than ourselves.  Next time you want to make fun of someone, take a good look at the mirror and ask yourself, why?  What do you think?   

Thoughts of the week

 I am sitting, admiring the tree outside my kitchen, watching the squirrels coming for the pieces of apple I put out for them, which I am not supposed to do in Toronto, because some NDP person decided she didn't like people feeding birds.  I have never seen her smile.  Spending time in nature is very therapeutic.  When I have breakfast, I enjoy watching my squirrels having theirs and we just chill as we enjoy admiring each other.  I used to feed them peanuts which the blue jays enjoyed but I had a neighbour complain that shells were going onto his property so I switched to apples.  I have had only one complaint that there are too many squirrels around.  I believe I have six.    There is a hawk who sweeps down looking to feed on my little creatures.   I was recently asked if I will miss my home here.  I had to think for 10 seconds because I haven't been asked that question.  I am usually told that I shouldn't move to Niagara and why.  I replied that no, I would not miss the house but I would miss my backyard and the people.  Of course Niagara Falls is not far from Toronto so I am sure I won't be missing many at all.  It has gotten to a point where everyone wants to visit me there and that is ok.  None of the houses I looked at had a yard remotely like mine.  However, my back yard was vacant of all the trees and roses that have been planted and I can have that done again.  It would probably be wiser to buy a condo but there isn't any near the falls.  There was one condo available that had a back deck, facing nature, had two bedrooms and an office - just perfect.  It also had a pool, sauna and gym - perfecto.  But, it is now off the market and it was on the edge of town.  I believe they are renting it out.  They advertized at the time, they had a bus - whatever that is supposed to mean.

I should be able to sell my home because I do live in a coveted spot.  One neighbour came to visit indicating she was surprised I was selling.  No one should be surprised because I have always said that when my pets die I would.  I never would have put my pets through this ordeal of instability.  I loved them and placed them first.  They had a long and happy life and when I had to make the decision to have them put down, regardless of how painful, I put them first again and was with them til the end.  My neighbour reminded me that I live in a beautiful neighbourhood and I agreed.  My mom used to love walking along this street.   

The intent of my agent was to cause a bidding war and the house to be sold in a week.  Ooops didn't happen.  Trump got blamed.  Bad boy Trumpie.  He has been the popular topic since his election.  I was having a discussion with my sibling about him and I remarked that if I had the opportunity to save his life if something was happening to him, I probably would.  My sibling agreed.   Initially, speaking for myself, I thought it simply as my military training to protect.  However, my sibling never had the same training, but our mother was a champion to those needing help if she came across bullies.  She would be selfless.  I guess we have that in us.  I had planned on moving to Niagara and wearing "Canada is not for sale", at some coffee outside bar and see what happens as an experiment,  Sibling informed me that they are turning people away they think are problematic.  I can see that so I shall just wear Canada and perhaps move up to not being for sale, when customs realize I am a good girl.  I have also been thinking of retiring.  It is getting complicated trying to maneuver all this and be readily available.  My accountant told me I spend too much money on associations etc.......He suggested that I retire, unless I want to stimulate my brain.  What?  Another suggested a sabatical.  I don't mind suggestions.  I realize I have always been a workaholic placing that ahead of most things.  Spending time with my family was wonderful.  No, I can never live in the country.  I loved spending time with my great niece.  She is five years old and so bright with loads of empathy.  She would gather everyone around the table so we could all draw pictures which I hated.  She was there to encourage me that my work was very nice (which it wasn't).  She was the best at five years of age and I told her that she should take art classes.  "Would that challenge me?"  She asked inquisitively.  "Yes!"  I responded.  She was sold,  Imagine a five year old child asking if art would challenge her.  She spared me having to participate in further art performances.  She is very much loved.  People with children in your care remember that the first five years are so important in their lives.  Love them.  Provide them with routine and safety.  Don't put them down.  Be kind.  Learn how to be good parents if you don't know how and I say that because many people who are parents don't know how to parent and it is such an important job -  Helping a young person be the best that she or he can be and how to be kind to others.  Demonstrate it yourself so others can learn.  That is all the thoughts for the week.  Have a good weekend world.  Take a step back and remember that you are the author of yourselves.  What do you think?

Try again - Got it. New listing

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I didn't forget you - busy

Well it has been a whirlwind.   I have been looking at houses galore and now I have stopped until I sell the house.  I had put in two condional offers and lost both to firm offers.  My house was listed for multiple offers but due to the tarriff war, it didn't work out because people don't know one day from the other where the economy will go.  (Amazing to me that one person can control the destiny of the world.  This should never be allowed or tolerated, but that is my opinion only.  Actually I like Bernie Saunders and what he had to say on CNN.  I taped it and will watch it when time is on my side.)  I did consider a firm offer for 30 seconds.   A private lender wanted $30,000 to be paid within a month and that wasn't even the Mafia.  Don't do it people!  I certainly didn't.  Boy, people really love money.  I have been back and forth from Niagara Falls and then I decided a break was needed and I did what I haven't ever tried.  I went to visit my sibling in the country or close to it, for a week and only had my phone for communication.  Though the phone was busy, it was workable.  I tried out one local restaurant I will eventually talk about.  I came home to a show piece and that has been interesting.  I had to search for Alexa and now she is beside me so I can listen to music and ask her whatever questions.  She missed me.  I also found my private phones so now I can use that as well.  I found dish soap so that is a good thing.  This is like sleeping in a department store and you are hiding there and you can leave no evidence of being there.  Your personality is stripped completely from your home but I did a no no.  I have placed a little rabbit holding an easter egg on my desk.  Ha, ha, I re-claimed a bit of me - some colour.  In Niagara Falls if a real estate agent books a time and doesn't show up they are fined $500.00 and I love it.  Here at home, they are considered rude but are not fined.  One agent did that three hours after an open house and I was fuming because I had returned from the boondocks and couldn't go in, until no show showed up.  Mr Hoang I am not impressed.  I shall be tempted to decline when and if he wishes to return.  So, tonight since the trade war,  I mean multiple offers  failed, my price will go up 100,000 which is probably what it is worth right now at this moment.  Trump.....come on, be a sport, go on vacation and give the economy a break.  So, for a bit longer be patient with me.  I am still around and around and around.  My notes are all hidden but that is ok.  I don't need notes in general.  I always have lots in my grey cells.  On the downside, I can't attend any conferences/lectures because I need to be available.  Clients are always a priority so that remains clear.  Take care world.  Good talk.  What do you think?

Buy my house in Toronto so I can move to Niagara Falls - please.

https://www.realtor.ca/l/bRm-0/ka 

Disney World is my favourite place in the entire world - Disney at my Castle - Castle Loma

Don't forget to always balance your life to meet the challenges life brings.  Rest, play, work, spend time in nature, surround yourself with good company.

 

Thoughts of the week

Well, I have been busy and it has been enlightening.  I found a house I like in Niagara Falls and put in a conditional offer.  I found out after doing an inspection on the house, it has dents on the roof.  So, now I need to determine why a roof would have dents and if I should still buy it etc........So, if you buy a house, do an inspection even when it looks as beautiful and new as this place does.  My bank has also been a learning experience.  Considering I have been with them since I was thirteen years old, I have found there is no loyality for customers.  That has been very disappointing.  So, it is time to re-examine if my own loyality is justified for this particular legal shark as my mom used to refer to banks.  I have always been too independent to listen to my mom.  Actually, I did always listen and she was my best friend, but I always had a problem accepting opinions.  I like dealing with facts and so this has been a blow.  It feels like it did when I was searching to buy my first car.  If you buy my bio (For Love of Country Military Policewoman), I list the details there.  So next week will be so busy and I will be unavailable to the world.  I do want to post some more Disney pictures from Casa Loma.  Wish me luck, I can use some extra prayers, that all goes well.  As for the States, well, Trump is trying to crush us and I am really sorry that he doesn't care about us at all.  We were a good neighbour and I don't really blame him.  I don't think he knows any better.  Unfortunately, Americans will suffer too.  We have our own decisions to make here, since we need to vote soon as I am trying to squeeze it all in, but voting is important and I shall.  We have Poiviere (Conservative) whom I cannot consider since he won't get a security clearance and provides rediculous excuses.  If you don't have a security clearance you are not privy to classified information.  How can you run a country in that situation?  You can't.  A security clearance requires a back ground check, so what does he have to hide?  Everyone votes for whom they think is best to run the country.  In my opinion, for myself, my vote will be based on who can deal with Trump a wild card who wants to invade us and crush us, not necessarily in that order.  I don't blame Americans.  Trump is still trying hard to destroy all relations in the free world.  Everyone in the Western World seems to be trying to find different partners.  Now with all the scandals and the newest, classified information that could have cost soldiers lives, a reporter was invited to a top secret talk (but they insist it wasn't), on a network that was not secure.  Any Private would know that   this is a no no.  But, of course instead of recognizing their error, they feel that they can decide what should be classified or not.  What a bunch of foolish clowns, who I wouldn't trust to run a nursery.  Have a good week and I will talk to you after next week.  Americans I still love you and of course I will visit you and wear a t shirt or baseball cap saying Canada is Not for sale.  But first, I need to move to Niagara.  I shall keep you briefed.  Keep visiting us in Canada.  Canadians are hurt and mad, but it is against - one person.  What do you think?  

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Let's keep it light today. Here are some photos of St Patricks celebration and one from the Home Show. One from Disney

 Well, work hard and play hard.  Work less and play more?  How about a balance?  Anyhow.  The first photo is from the St Patricks party at the community centre.  I want to print out some photos for them.  Girls just want to have fun.  The second photo is our beloved moose at the Home Show.  Poor Moose.  She is looking rather beaten up.  Hey people.....take care of her a bit better.  If I get to the ex this summer, I'm going to check in on her and send you another photo.  The third photo is a fun day at Casa Loma - Disney Show (no way was I going to miss that).  The sword fight was fun.  Some kids got scared and others were more like me.  More Disney pictures to come because I love Disney!

From Boys to Men: Uniting International Research & Practice - This will be well worth attending. I can't unfortunately. Niagara

Uniting International Research & Practice

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Hilton Barbados Resort

Hilton Barbados Resort

September 19 - 20, 2025

September 19 - 20, 2025Tentative

Tentative

Schedule

Schedule

From Boys to Men:

From Boys to Men:

Uniting International Research & Practice

Uniting International Research & Practice

Men

Families

Families

2025

September 19, 2025 September 19, 2025 Hilton Barbados Resort

Hilton Barbados Resort

8:45 - 9:05 am

Room: Garrison 1

Welcome & Introductions

Susan Chuang & Rebekah Ali-Gouveia University of Guelph, Canada, & Lawyer, Youth Advocate, Trinidad & Tobago Hon. Philip Telesford

Minister for Health

Government of Grenada, Grenada

9:05 - 10:00 am

KEYNOTE SPEAKER: Dr. Jerome Teelucksingh

University of the West Indies, St. Augustine, Trinidad & Tobago

Founder, International Men’s Day (November 19)

TIME Garrison 1 Garrison 3

TIME Garrison 1 Garrison 3

10:10 - 11:50 am

11:50 - 1:20 pm

1:20 - 2:20 pm

Boys & Youth: Abuse, Risk, & the Law

LUNCH

Men: Offenders & the Law

Men: Paternity, Fathering, & Health

LUNCH

3:00 - 4:40 pm

4:40 - 5:00 pm

PANEL SESSION: Family Breakdown & the Law

Day 1 Wrap-Up & Activity

Emotional Intelligence, Communication,

& Building Relationships

Masculinity

Domestic Violence & Homicide

International Families Alliance

IFAlliance.net

Tentative Schedule Day 1 - Friday, September 19Tentative

Tentative

Schedule

Schedule

From Boys to Men:

From Boys to Men:

Uniting International Research & Practice

Uniting International Research & Practice

Men

Families

Families

2025

September 19, 2025 September 19, 2025 Hilton Barbados Resort

Hilton Barbados Resort

8:45 - 9:05 am

Room: Garrison 1

Welcome & Introductions

Susan Chuang & Rebekah Ali-Gouveia University of Guelph, Canada, & Lawyer, Youth Advocate, Trinidad & Tobago Hon. Philip Telesford

Minister for Health

Government of Grenada, Grenada

9:05 - 10:00 am

KEYNOTE SPEAKER: Dr. Jerome Teelucksingh

University of the West Indies, St. Augustine, Trinidad & Tobago

Founder, International Men’s Day (November 19)

Garrison 1 Garrison 3

10:10 - 11:50 am

Risk and Juvenile Offending in the Caribbean

Corin Bailey

University of the West Indies, Cave Hill, Barbados

Bullying as a Precursor to Teen Dating Violence and Sexual

Violence: Identify Pathways Underlying the Association

Dorothy Espelage & Yutong Gao

University of North Carolina, United States

From Risk to Resilience: How Sexual Risk Avoidance Shapes

Middle School Boys’ Health and Decision-Making

Nanci Coppola

Coppola and Company, United States

Supporting Boys and Men: Addressing Trauma and

Empowering Emotional Health From Childhood to the 20s

Jamie Huysman & John Hamel

STAR Network & Family Preservation Alliance, United States

From Boys to Men - Promoting Fatherhood: Paternity Fraud

Victim or Really the Daddy?

Gene C. Colman & Brian Ludmer

Gene C. Colman Family Law Centre & LudmerLaw, Canada

Maternal Gatekeeping, Father-Child Relationships, and Men's

Psychological Well-Being

Sarah Schoppe-Sullivan

The Ohio State University, United States

Co-Parenting Is the Root of Single-Parenting

Sharon Rose-Gittens

Barbados Association of Professional Social Workers, Barbados

11:50 - 1:20 pm LUNCH

Tentative Schedule Day 1 - Friday, September 19

International Families Alliance

IFAlliance.netTentative

Tentative

Schedule

Schedule

From Boys to Men:

From Boys to Men:

Uniting International Research & Practice

Uniting International Research & Practice

Men

Families

Families

2025

Garrison 1 Garrison 3

From Risk to Reform: Analyzing Trends in Male Offending and

Exploring Targeted Solutions Through a Caribbean Lens

Angela Dixon

Barbados Probation Service, Barbados

Making Change Meaningful for Prisoner and Ex-Prisoner

Survivors of Sexual Assault

David Gadd

University of Manchester, United Kingdom

Healing Journeys of Indigenous Men in Conflict With the Law

Returning to Their Communities: Facilitating Factors, Needs,

and Future Directions

Lisa Ellington

Université Laval, Canada

Emotional Intelligence Within the Family - Focus on Fathers

Fabian Sargeant

MEN Empowerment, Barbados

Parenting in Partnership: Bridging the Gap for Mastering Effective

Co-Parenting Communication

Nelson Racson & Sarah Jensen

Dads Move, United States

Healing Family Breakdowns: Addressing High Conflict and

Building Healthy Relationships for Boys and Men

Dwayne Meeks & Tia Meeks

Beacon House of Hope, United States

2:30 - 3:30 pm

PANEL SESSION: Healing Family Breakdowns: Addressing

High Conflict, Building Healthy Relationships for Boys and Men

Rebekah Ali-Gouveia, Joanne Chuckaree, Alexei Mc Kell, &

Jake Shen

Lawyer and Youth Advocate, Trinidad & Tobago; Caribbean Institute for

Conflict Resolution, Trinidad & Tobago; Noel House Law Chambers,

Barbados; & Jake Shen Criminal Defense Lawyer, Canada

Masculinity and Recovery From Sexual Victimization: A Gendered

Recovery Capital Framework

Keren Gueta

Bar-Ilan University, Israel

Understanding Refugee Men and Domestic Violence Through the

Lens of Masculinity

Jill Bloom

William James College, United States

Growing Up in Protracted Displacement: The Lived Realities of

Fathers Navigating the System Through Domestic Violence

3:40 - 4:40 pm

War-Affected Refugee Boys Living in Italy

Raymond Gregson

Myriam Denov, Maya Fennig, & Chiara Quagliariello

McGill University, Canada, Tel Aviv University, Israel, &

University of Rome, Italy

The Role of Immigrant Men’s Personal and Group Identification

in Their Psychological Well-being

Barbara Thelamour & Naila Smith

Swarthmore College & University of Virginia, United States

Growing Your Mindset LLC, United States

Clinical Considerations When Working With Male Victims

James Dubé

The Peoples’ Counselling Clinic, Canada

4:40 - 5:00 pm Wrap-Up Day 1 & Activity

Tentative Schedule Day 1 - Friday, September 19Tentative

Tentative

Schedule

Schedule

From Boys to Men:

From Boys to Men:

Uniting International Research & Practice

Uniting International Research & Practice

Men

Families

Families

2025

September 20, 2025 September 20, 2025 Hilton Barbados Resort

Hilton Barbados Resort

9:00 - 9:15 am Morning Opening

Room: Garrison 1 Susan Chuang & Rebekah Ali-Gouveia

University of Guelph, Canada, & Lawyer, Youth Advocate, Trinidad & Tobago

Jamie Huysman

STAR Network, United States

9:15 - 10:10 am KEYNOTE SPEAKER: Dr. Elizabeth Bates

University of Cumbria, United Kingdom

TIME Garrison 1 Garrison 3

TIME Garrison 1 Garrison 3

10:10 - 11:35 am

11:35 - 1:00 pm

Parent-Youth Relationships & Effects of

High Conflict, & Divorce

LUNCH

Youth: Incarcerated Parents, Delinquency,

& Resilient Communities

LUNCH

1:00 - 2:00 pm

2:10 - 3:10 pm

3:15 - 3:45 pm

Male Inequality & False Allegations

Culture, Wellness, & Abuse

Closing Remarks!

Community Supports

Abuse & Homicide

11:35 - 1:00 pm LUNCH

International Families Alliance

International Families Alliance

IFAlliance.net

IFAlliance.net

Tentative Schedule Day 2 - Saturday, September 20

Tentative Schedule Day 2 - Saturday, September 20Tentative

Tentative

Schedule

Schedule

From Boys to Men:

From Boys to Men:

Uniting International Research & Practice

Uniting International Research & Practice

Men

Families

Families

2025

September 20, 2025 September 20, 2025 Hilton Barbados Resort

Hilton Barbados Resort

9:00 - 9:15 am Morning Opening

Room: Garrison 1 Susan Chuang & Rebekah Ali-Gouveia

University of Guelph, Canada, & Lawyer, Youth Advocate, Trinidad & Tobago

Jamie Huysman

STAR Network, United States

9:15 - 10:10 am KEYNOTE SPEAKER: Dr. Elizabeth Bates

University of Cumbria, United Kingdom

Garrison 1 Garrison 3

10:15 - 11:35 am

Father-Child Relationships Through the Eyes of Adolescents

William Fabricius

Arizona State University, United States

High-Conflict Parents and the Effects on Their Children

Nolanda Robert

Online Parenting Programs, United States

A Longitudinal Examination on Divorce and Adolescents' Mental

Health in Taiwan

Reversing Criminogenic Predisposition in Adolescents 11 - 16

Years With Mentorship: Reflections From the Government

Industrial School Barbados and Barbados Probation Services

Florence Seemungal

University of Oxford, United Kingdom

Children With Incarcerated Parents in the United Kingdom: A

Qualitative Exploration of a Police-Led Initiative to Support

Families

Ching-Yu (Soar) Huang

National Taiwan University, Taiwan

Sarah Bekaert

Oxford Brooks University, United Kingdom

Empowering Men and Boys: Breaking Barriers, Building Resilient

Communities

Richie Bansraj

Caribbean Ambassador for IDEVAMB, Trinidad & Tobago

11:35 - 1:00 pm LUNCH

International Families Alliance

IFAlliance.net

Tentative Schedule Day 2 - Saturday, September 20Tentative

Tentative

Schedule

Schedule

From Boys to Men:

From Boys to Men:

Uniting International Research & Practice

Uniting International Research & Practice

Men

Families

Families

2025

Garrison 1 Garrison 3

1:00 - 2:00 pm

Reforming the United Nations to Address the 12 Areas of Male

Inequality

Edward Barlett & Larry DeMarco

International Council for Men and Boys, United States

False Accusations of Child Sexual Abuse: A Review of the

National Registry of Exonerations

Caroline Erentzen & Sarah Martin

Toronto Metropolitan University, Canada

2:10 - 3:10 pm

Smudges in the Mirror: Fathers' Views on Their Cultural

Backgrounds and Its Impact on Well-Being

LaWaun Curry & Tara Curry

Just Wanna Live Right, United States

Abuse: Childhood, Family and Intimate Partners

Adetutu Aina-Pelemo

University of the West Indies, Cave Hill, Barbados

Translating Theory Into Practice: Tips, Tricks and Surprises

Learned on the Ground While Building a National Charity for Boys

and Men

Justin Trottier

Canadian Centre for Men and Families, Canada

Barbadian Men's Experience With Men's Health Forums: Building

Towards Best Practices

Dwayne Devonish

University of the West Indies, Cave Hill, Barbados

"You See My Weapon and Weed, But Are Blind to My Tears":

Addressing Youth Trauma, Violence, and Addiction

Tessa Beausejour

RestoringRootsMindBody&Soul, INC, United States

Overlooked Victims: Examining Male Victimization and Female