Grandrivercruises.ca Grand River Cruise is available til 9 Oct 25. You have a month (near Burlington)

     Another trip I took this summer is the Grandriver Cruise.  I had fun at the family owned delight.  The boat's captain is a woman and she provided us with the river's history.  She explained how our Canadian natives were taken advantage of with false promises, giving them land and then taking it away.  She also explained how they helped us to win the war against the Americans.  Actually, I think it was all them.  I do recommend this day trip.  The surrounding area is beautiful and the geenery was enchanting especially after coming from Toronto.  The vegetarian meal could have been better, but those eating meat were happy.  My rice was bland, but the soup was tasty.  The best part of my meal was the bread.  We all asked for more.  They also sell it in the gift shop (cheap) but it was all gone, so I recommend you buy it in the gift shop before going anywhere else because it is that good.  This is my second trip.  The captains narrative made this the better of the two.  

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Working together to strengthen Families by Dr Chuang continues

 

(Bet you thought I forgot; nope)  Fathers are similar to mothers in secure attachment: sensitive, response.  Long term it is linked to Psychosocial development, emotional regulation, social competence; cognitive outcomes.  The more caregiving in a child’s life, the better.  

18% of children in 2019 up to the age of 17, experienced separation/divorce of parents.  Only 21% shared equal time of parents.  36% had regular visits, 81% - remote and 19% had no contact of one parent.  86.8% child lived with mother only.  Does effect children.  Children have a right to see their parents and extended families.  After 5 years, no contact of one parent.  After 10 years, 40% have no contact.  Of 120  (Canadian) fathers, 37% suffered verbal abuse;  33% psychological abuse, 24 % physical abuse, 7% financial abuse, 7% parental alienation, 4% other.  Final remarks -  Abuse has no boundaries.  Abuse is a human issue with long term consequences for generations.  Knowledge is power.  Concluded.

Any possible errors here would be my own and not Dr Chuang 

Books - Rick Mercer Final Report

 Well I finished reading his book among many others but his deserves some attention.  I started watching his rants which I didn't really consider rants, probably in his last year, of the Rick Mercer Report.  He seemed to travel across Canada and highlight some points of interest.  But, there was much about him that is revealed in the book, the person.  I had no idea he was supportive of the military and bashed politicians for neglecting them so.  He reported how the conservative party (Harper) went to court in a fight with Canadian Veterans.  I remember that time and was disgusted.  I won't go into details because it may be worth reading the book for you.  Rick Mercer also reveals interesting news about Air Canada being stingy.  The whole world knows that now, don't they?  It is shameful that people couldn't even afford to buy food and rent without being able to live above povery.  I don't fly but if I ever have to .....(well, I won't).  I also think it is cute when he states, "Sure, the Charter looks nice hanging on a wall, but the fact is, it grants far too many rights that are contrary to the deeply held personal views of many chubby white guys." -  so cute.  Well, if you like rants and many do nowadays, this book is worth a read and if Rick Mercer runs for politics, I will vote for him.  Why not?  We need fresh blood. 

The Difference Between Young People And Old People. John Jospeh (I think you need a laugh today - so watch this)

Regarding: We're Not a Cult - Watching this made my blood boil.

 During the weekend I watched this investigative report about two people who are causing so much harm.  I have spent most of my life helping people in one way or another, but to see two fools manipulating and hurting so many people who are suffering took the cake.  If they were in Ontario it would be easy.  They would be reported and even if their clause of having no therapists would not protect them.  However, they are in the States, but the IRS will be the first step.  Family Services should also be notified.  What they are doing is manipulating people who have gone to them for help.   First of all, children who have been sexually abused are never at fault.   Children grow up and feel responsible when they shouldn't.  Children are sexual beings and preditors know this and take advantage of this.  They are the only ones responsible.  To make such a stupid and ignorant statement to adults who have suffered sexual abuse and get paid for it, well there is a place for such people.  Degrading people and abusing them is not love.  It is demeaning and hurtful.  I couldn't believe they were convincing people to change their gender for their search for love.  Where is that sign I posted "Bang your head here."  I could not believe the harm that these two arrogant and ignorant people are causing just for money.  So, this is the advice I am going to give you today.  When you want to find help for whatever is bothering you, check out the credentials.  What do they have a degree in?  Now they have hired a PHD LCol American retired Officer.  She is not qualified.  You need to be qualified in the area you are working.  I understand that people are lonely in todays society.  I suggest you find a therapist to help you and make sure the person is registered and there is a governing party.  Get off the computer and go out and meet people.  Take a course for interest where there are actual people.  Join a support group but ensure that there are no ulterior motives.  If there is any kind of bashing look elsewhere.  Fraudsters are now charging lots of money which seems legitimate but isn't.  Any organization which discourages keeping in contact with your family - is a big red flag.  At the top of my head that is it for now.  Oh, wait.  PTSD cannot be "cured" in one session.  PTSD is a physical response to trauma.  So when you hear bozos talking nonsence please do not believe it.  Do some basic research.  Take care of yourself.  Surround your self with positive influences.  Don't confuse abuse with love.  

We’re Not a Cult: Inside Twin Flames Universe

Summer Ends with the Toronto Exhibition

💔  Here are some photos I took at the Ex.  Taking my car cost me $40.00 extra dollars and yesterday I believe it was $45.00.  Oh well, I do go every year and will continue to do so while I live in Toronto.  Afterwards, I'll have to think about it.  I won a prize for my niece and next door neighbour.  The neighbour showed up at my door yesterday with her big doggie and they gave me a small tomato in return.....so cute.  She then returned with another one.  Of course, I had to give the St Bernard his three biscuits for the day.  I missed all the shows for the ex because I usually go early to miss the crowds and now the shows don't start til 2pm.  I had seen the ice show several times and the dog shows - can't count.  The flyer is what I used to go on when I was a teen and now well it is in the museum once again - oh boy.  The oven and dress is part of the CNE museum now.  One woman sat down beside me and told me she used to have an oven like that.  Hasn't changed much, huh?  Took a few pictures before the crowd gets heavy which is usually when I leave.  The Conjuring had a Priest at the entrance.  I asked the hosts if I was going to get a heart attack going in there.  I was assured, I wouldn't since they have to make sure the kids don't.  At the entrance there was a man dressed up like a priest.  He asked if he could give me a blessing.  I declined.  He then told me he was an ordained minister.  That made it worse.  I went by my gut feeling this time.  It just seemed so wrong to me.  The Conjuring is based on a true story.  The main characters in the movie are Catholics (who are no longer alive) who used to fight the devil.  Spooky!  I will be going to see the movie.  

Oh by the way.  I did get scared inside.  It was full of mirrors and the children inside scared me as they stopped behind me.  I was trying to find my way out and got startled by them.  They looked so serious and still.  Their dad thought it was funny.  Their grandmother not so much!  Later.