Coronavirus disease (COVID-19) outbreak updates, symptoms, prevention, travel, preparation - Canada.ca

Coronavirus disease (COVID-19) outbreak updates, symptoms, prevention, travel, preparation - Canada.ca

I support the work the liberals are doing now. However, I do believe that questions need to be answered and not skirted around. This happens too often.

A 99 year old British veteran shines - Thought of the day

I saw him on the news last night and again this morning. He was slowly but steadily walking around with the use of a walker. British Veteran, 99 years old Capt (Retired)Tom Moore has raised 21 million dollars for the United Kingdom Health Workers. What a champ. He deserves another medal to add on to the ones he has. He had promised to walk a hundred laps in his backyard, which he completed with his walker. I salute you sir. What an amazing man. He raised the funds on social media. I have noticed that in Toronto so many have stepped up to help others. Even though some people are still shooting each other and killing each other, as well as those taking criminal opportunities at the cost of others, there are those who are shining through all that mess. The pandemic has brought the best of us to shine. So, if you are thinking you can’t do much, think of Capt Moore almost 100 years old who is still giving. Why not think of him as your mentor when you are feeling helpless and alone. There is a light, you just need to see it, even if it is a flicker of hope. Why not spend a few minutes today to jot down some notes of what it is you would like to accomplish? Take a baby step. It doesn't have to be for anyone else. You need to take care of yourself first. What is one thing you can do for yourself today for self care? If you can, what is one thing you can do for someone else? It doesn't have to be big. It can be just reaching out to the phone to call someone. What do you think?

Public Health Canada and the corona virus - Thought of the day

I have cut and pasted a reference for you below. Even if you are not in Canada, you may look at some the recommendations which is reliable world wide. This virus is a world effort to combat. I am sure that for many Easter was a time of reflection and hope but for many others it was a time of great sorrow. Hopefully, you live in a country which is taking care of your needs. Hopefully you live in a country which is providing you with food and the medical resources that you need. This is a time for us to unite. We have so much brain power in the world. This is a time, not to compete, but unite. In educational psychology which is slow in the uptake, we were made aware of how competition sets us back, if people strive for all the attention and want to be the first. By blending our brains together, we can grow and be better. I am sure that this will pass, as it has in the past. I do hope we have learned from this and be more prepared for the future. We need to have more respect for nature and each other. Your thought of the day? How have you been set back by what is happening? How have you grown? I wish you well. https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/diseases/coronavirus-disease-covid-19.html

All set up for an electronic practice - Happy Easter

I am all set up. I now have an on-line practice. I still part take in phone therapy for those who fear technology of any kind. I gave myself a deadline and I made it. Now I can slow down as I bring my web sites up to date to include the electronic practice. I just finished being on a webinar that York University provided and it appears that the public is still not up to date on all the facts. I provided resources on previous blogs for legit resources. It can be quite confusing for people. Listen to people who are qualified. There are a lot of opinions - stick to the science. When I hear the “new normal,” I cringe. I cringed when I heard it the first time. This is not the new normal. This will pass. Remember that as you adapt your lifestyle to control this pandemic. Stay home (you can be outside in your backyard etc). Maintain physical distance please. Let’s all work together on this please. I want to wish you a wonderful holiday. Worship from home. There are many services on line and on u-tube. Think of communion as a spiritual communion. I am hoping to spend some time in the sun if it doesn’t snow, read a book, watch some movies and spend time with family/friends virtually or in spirit. Take the time to allow yourself to relax. Limit your exposure to news. It is good to be abreast and up to date but not to the point that your are overwhelmed. Take care of yourselves please. I value every life out there so much. I am watching CNN, CTV, CP 24, and CBS, to keep on top of what is happening out there, but to an extent. My heart bleeds for New York City. I love that place so much. Regardless of the politics, I love my Southern neighbours. I had before all this happened planned to take a mystery tour to the States. The only reason I didn’t book it was because I couldn’t get through. When this is all over I will book it, but it is obvious that this will take quite some time. I have lots of faith that we will get through this and I hope that we will learn from this. We need to really get serious about working things out in the world. We need to take science seriously and global warming serious and we need to vote for those who help up along that direction. This is not a time for bullies to be in control. We need clear heads and those who can work together. We need to get priorities in its proper order. I am happy in how my country is dealing with this. I don’t want to see leaders fighting to make themselves noticed. I want to see connection and colaborative action to help us all go through this. I celebrate Easter. I have one tiny Easter bunny and two eggs (chocolate) left. I will try to hold off til Sunday to eat it. I want to be mindful that there is so much suffering out there. So God bless you all during this holy time. I am calling it a day!

Bringing you up to date with services and my adapting to the pandemic

I am in awe of how quiet my street is. Saturday I went for my walk when people normally are not up and there was just enough of sole walkers to be able to maintain my social distance. I have seen people I didn’t know lived in the area. The city is not built for social distancing. Even though there weren’t many people out walking, I still found myself walking on the roadway to avoid getting too close. That is why it is difficult for me to go out and so I have begun a twenty minute work out tape. My body tells me it is out of shape by the crackling I hear and feel. My work has always led me out and about and now my work has me sitting and sitting and more sitting. Not too much as changed for me. I still get up at my usual time and go to sleep at my usual time, something I try to motivate clients to do, to build a natural clock for their bodies. I am still aware of my coffee breaks and lunch breaks and sometimes I call it a day, early and sometimes I need to work later. All in all, it is pretty much how I have been working except that now I have decided to do all my work on telephone or electronic until the pandemic is over. It is safer for all. For the past two weeks, I have been reading and researching everything about building an electronic practice. One of the questions I have asked is if this is something temporary or just until the pandemic is over? I have decided to keep it all. This has also given me something to think about as I review all my associations. As you know I dropped my title of Pastoral Counselling because the name had changed to Psycho Spiritual Therapist. However, I am still an associate. Should I stay or should I go? What are the benefits and is it worth the expense? I am with the American Association of Family Therapy? They are expensive and associated with the Ontario Association of Family Therapy. Should I stay or leave? I have sent them an email to determine if I am able to have American clients on my platform which will be compliant with them. As a Registered Psychotherapist, I am able to practice in Ontario. Not all provinces are regulated but with time, that should happen. I have written before in my blogs how in the past anyone more or less could provide therapy without qualifications, but no more. I was horrified when I learned that in my undergrad. There are still competitions where one thinks they are better than another. I remain amused by that. Isn’t that a common trait? In the past companies provided EAP programs covering psychologists and Social Workers and some have remained in that mindset. It is the employer who determines what the client is covered for and so one insurance company or EAP program hired by the company will provide only what that company wants. Not everyone is aware of who is regulated now and what can be extended. We have sheets to hand out to people who may not be covered by one association, but I have never handed one out. I don’t believe that clients should fight for causes, but our own associations and perhaps the government to point out what regulation is and what it entails. The Colleges are there to protect the public. I would like to see this extended to all services. There should always be ethical concerns for all areas of work, especially during these days. Some provinces are specific of what platform they don’t want. I have chose a platform that has all the requirements for psychotherapy in Europe, Canada and USA. I know that if I leave Canada to provide my services to another country, I cannot stay away and still keep my registration for more than one year. I know that regardless of the platforms I am using, I need to know if the state, province, country allows it and if my college is ok with it. I need in top of that to know, what the duty to report are, and if that is in conflict with anything. Since I have a private practice, I am mindful that I can only do so much. My own self care is the most important concern, because if I am not mentally or physically healthy, I cannot certainly help anyone else. One of my associations, the Canadian Association of Family Therapy has been most helpful these couple of weeks since the Corona Virus has changed everything. It is this Association (CAMFT) has the only recognition for Canada for family and couple are therapists. Not everyone knows that. We meet up on-line on a weekly bases across Canada and ensure we are all ok and we are up to date on what we need for our clients. I have also signed up for a two hour course with them “The Couples that play together, stay together.” I talked a bit about that last year where I attended Guelph University, for a seminar. You can read about that in previous blogs. I have also signed up for an one hour webinar with York University - The role of the Patient Navigator in the Global Pandemic. So, I am still working as I normally do without the fun attached. I love learning and keeping up to date. I also love the social part of it, as many of us do. So, with this pandemic I have had to change and adapt. Don’t we normally do that when something confronts us and forces us to change? If the pandemic did not happen, I would not have continued with telephone counselling nor would I have started an electronic practice (Ok, it is not up and running yet but I should be practising with it very soon). I want it up and running soonest of course for clients. I am looking at next Tuesday. This platform is more elaborate than I needed, but I would rather over do it than the opposite. I need to provide the best I know. This has been a cramming time. However, this will permit more options for people. I will continue with face to face, once the pandemic is over. It is the most secure. I will continue with the telephone (land line) because not all people are comfortable with computers (telephone is more secure than cell phone). I think the electronic practice may allow me to spend more time in a warmer climate. Imagine if I can go South in the winter? Possibilities is what I can explore now as I look into the ethics and regulations. If this pandemic had not occurred, I would not be exploring all these new options. I would not be experiencing all these new ways of communication and socialization. How is the pandemic affecting you? Do you have enough food, shelter? Are you safe? Has any of this given you the opportunity for some reflection and hope for change? What do you think? www.redigondapsychotherapy.com www.silvaredigonda.com

Cut and pasted for you from York University Bulletin - Managing your emotions around COVID-19

8 tips for managing your emotions around COVID-19 March 31, 2020coronavirus, COVID-19, York University psychology clinicAva Baccari York University students at Glendon CollegeThe COVID-19 pandemic is challenging all aspects of our daily lives and so change is required; and yet change is one thing that most of us find difficult to accept. Humans are creatures of habit and now, as all of our daily routines are disrupted, emotions such as worry, fear, sadness, and loneliness seep into this experience as we try to keep ourselves safe from an imminent threat. Below, are some of the common reactions that you might be having in the midst of this pandemic, and some suggestions about how to manage them. It's important to recognize that individuals can experience a wide range of reactions–so there's no right or wrong in terms of the particular feelings you may have. What is important is being able to bring a sense of perspective so that negative emotions don’t escalate beyond an ability to manage them. For many of us, keeping this sense of perspective will be a challenge and so those individuals also have to practice self-compassion–the opposite of being critical of oneself. Some of the common reactions you may experiencing right now could be: • Anxiety, worry, panic • Anger • Feelings of loss or grief • Hyper vigilance to your health • Social withdrawal • Skepticism or bravado/excitement Here are some strategies to help you manage. 1. Acknowledgement and evaluation. It's important to acknowledge whatever emotion you are feeling and evaluate its usefulness: “It's understandable that I am worried or sad or don’t want to get out of bed given this pandemic, and is this emotion/behaviour helping me?” For example, a little worry can be very useful because it might help you to follow the important guidelines to wash your hands and not touch your face, and to keep two metres away from others when you must go out in public. However, a lot of worry that leads to panic attacks or hyper vigilance is not helpful and needs to be countered. Think about what you might say to a friend that would assist them to find the strength to counter these unhelpful thoughts and gain some perspective. 2. Find activities to complete that you have control over, and can give you a sense of mastery or effectiveness. Intentionally engaging in activities such as household chores, listening to music, or watching a TV show, can counter the negative emotion propelling you on a downward spiral. “I am going to help myself stop worrying by watching my favourite TV show.” 3. Develop a “worry/sadness” box. This is another useful strategy to help you develop control over negative thinking. You can have an actual box or imaginary one. The idea is to write down the thought(s) circulating in your brain that you can’t get rid of, and imagine putting them in a box as a way of creating some distance. You can go back to the thought at any time, or you can simply use the space created by writing down the thought and moving onto other activities. 4. Adopt a mindset of gratitude. Research has indicated that identifying three things each day that you are grateful for can have a positive impact on mood. 5. Practice mindfulness. There are guided meditations on YouTube that will help you focus and break the worry or sadness spiral. Walking meditations can also be useful; to do this on your next walk, consciously pay attention to what you are seeing and have an inner dialogue about it. "I see a black car; the sidewalk has a big crack; the grass is getting greener." This will keep your thoughts focused in the here and now, and not on worry or sadness. 6. Control how much media you consume. Particularly if this is a trigger for starting the worry or sadness cycle. 7. Watch how you speak. Our language impacts how we feel, so pay attention to your inner dialogue and see if you can replace descriptors like “awful", "terrible", or "scary”, with “interesting" or "not helpful”. Self-compassionate language falls in this category: “I know that I am worrying a lot and I am trying to take small steps to counter it.” 8. Keep connected. We are social beings and the accurate phrase for how we should handle this virus is: “physical distancing with social connection.” Our social contacts can provide support, encouragement and distraction, so please remember to reach out. Remember, change is hard. Set small goals for yourself as you try to manage your emotions during this difficult time, and be kind to yourself. Louise Hartley is the Director of the York University Psychology Clinic. Post navigation