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Tuesday, 6 January 2026

MAID - What a cheap cop out for this psychiatrist. (A medical doctor with three years of psychology)

 Excerpt from a House of Commons speech by B.C. Conservative MP Tamara Jansen laying out the “impossible paradox” of MAiD if her Bill C-218 isn’t passed.


Mr. Speaker, I want the members to imagine someone's son. He is in his forties and life has worn him down. He lives with a painful illness that leaves him sick, exhausted and often unable to leave the house. On top of that, he struggles with addictions, depression and anxiety, which have taken more from him than anyone can see from the outside. Some days, he can barely hold it together. He relies on his family for a place to live, food and help getting through the week. They are doing their best, and he is doing his best, but the weight of it is crushing.

One day, he finally meets a psychiatrist. He goes, hoping this might finally be the start of real help. His addictions still have not been treated, and his mental health care has not truly begun. He is vulnerable, scared and hanging on by a thread.

Instead of being offered a plan to get him stable, MAiD is raised as an option. The assessment moves ahead, and before he ever receives proper support for his mental health or addictions, he is approved. His MAiD provider drives him to the place where his life is ended. This is someone's son who needed help, not a final exit.  

Believe it or not, this happened here in Canada, and this is where we are headed if we do not act. Unless Parliament chooses a different path, Canada will allow MAiD for people whose only condition is mental illness. Men and women struggling with depression, trauma or overwhelming psychological pain could be steered toward death by a system that too often cannot offer timely treatment, consistent follow-up or even basic support. This is why I brought forward Bill C-218, the Right to Recover Act. It is simple. It asks Parliament to stop, consider what we have learned, and act responsibly before people are irretrievably harmed.

My grandparents immigrated here after World War II with very little. They chose Canada because it was a place where people had endless opportunities to better themselves, where neighbours watched out for each other and communities worked in unison to make a better life for all. They built a Canada where the vulnerable were cared for and the less privileged in society were valued and treated with equal care. Those fundamental values attracted millions of immigrants over the years.

Today, many Canadians fear we are losing those values. Canadians remain some of the most compassionate people, but our system is overwhelmed, stretched thin and unable to meet the needs of suffering people. 

When people fall through the cracks, the easy temptation is to accept that failure is inevitable. When that happens, people facing mental illness can end up alone, waiting months, sometimes years, for specialized treatment. When help does not come, they lose hope. That moment of hopelessness should never be an opportunity for the State to end their lives through MAID.

When the House last debated MAID, mental illness was not part of the core discussion. It was added in a last-minute Senate amendment to Bill C-7. The implications were not fully understood by the House.

Psychiatrists across Canada, including chairs of psychiatry at all 17 medical schools, (tell) us plainly there is no reliable way to predict when a mental illness is irremediable, which is a requirement in the MAiD law. People get worse, but they also get better, and most do. No test, scan or clinical tool can reliably tell us someone will never recover. All people deserve the opportunity to get better. No one should be encouraged to give up on themselves.

As legislators, we need to listen to what so many medical professionals are telling us, which is how hard it is to distinguish between suicidal ideation and MAiD…. If MAiD is expanded, we will be forced into an impossible paradox. A suicidal person calling a crisis line is urged to hold on. Yet if they request MAID, that same despair may be treated as justification for death. This is why Bill C-218 is necessary. I urge every member in the House to support (it) so Canada remains a nation that protects the vulnerable, offers treatment before despair and gives every person the chance to recover. Let us take this responsibility seriously. 


Monday, 5 January 2026

Preparing for AI: The Blessings and the Curses plus what I am doing



     One of the topics which we are not allowed to share was about Romantic Relationships with AI.  At that point I stopped taking notes on the topic because I didn’t want to breach confidentiality.  However, guess what was on the news in Canada?  Yup,  a marriage in Tokyo between AI Chat and a woman.  She had fallen in love.  I consider an official marriage between AI and a live person void.  I also think that it should not be encouraged and illegal.  The rest of the lecture was quite boring which is why I am not revealing the speaker or university.  It was/is too basic.


  My next book will be a fictional mystery about AI.  Of course I have to get my house in order.  At the moment I am dismantling my practice with mixed feelings.   I did love my work but I also needed something new.   I no longer had time to do all I needed to do.  People I know have wasted no time to invite me to new volunteer positions, while I am still trying to step down from what I am involved in now.  Any offers would have to really excite me but for now, I need to get my paperwork in order, as well as prepare my taxes which will take some time since I am way behind.  


I wish the world a Happy New Year.   I shall miss taking down my lights and Christmas tree.  I have until the 6th and then, much too soon it seems, I shall close down that as well.  That shall delay me more, but that is ok.  Balance………..



What do you think?


Wednesday, 31 December 2025

Wishing you a Happy New Year

Today is frigid outside and the night promises to grow colder with snow brrrrrrrrr.   Since I am a wimp,  I am passing from out doors festivities.  I am loving these festivities.   I did go to the Montgomery house for tea and will be providing you with pictures.  I have posted one here of their tea room.  What is missing everywhere is Christmas trees   sob.......not even one.  However, I noticed that the mall had tons (Yorkdale) compliments of my favourite cafe - Starbucks, but they removed the chairs and comfy sofas - why???????  Anyhow, I have a nice tree which will be coming down after the 6 Jan.  I really want to thank you all for being here.  I shall continue to serve you with my two cents.  I have posted my tree for you, just in case you don't have your own.  What do you think?  Looking forward to the new year!!!!!!!!!!!HAPPY NEW YEAR WORLD!!!!!!!   P.S.   I have a lot more under the tree and extra booties facing the right side.  Be safe.

My favourite season.  What is yours?

CACFT president New Years 2026 video - I am still a retired member .....Happy New Year!

Saturday, 27 December 2025

Lovely Christmas

 I always enjoy a sleep over after celebrating Christmas with family in the middle of nowhere.

This time I stopped on the way home to celebrate mass at Our Lady of Grace, on Yonge Street,   South of New Market.  It's a beautiful church and I recognized the Pastor from watching daily mass on TV.  I like his sermons.  This Christmas  Day however, was amazing.  The Bishop was there from Toronto and after the routine blessings after mass, he showered us with Life Time Blessings.  What a gift.  We are lucky to live in a country where being Christian is safe.  But we need to keep it safe for all religions.  Our Jewish community was hit once again and this needs to be taken much more seriously from all levels of government.  There are Extremists targeting us as a country as well as other Western Countries.  We need to understand that ISIS is dangerous and needs to be dealt with.  What happened in Australia was horrible and I was glad that it was a Muslim who saved so many people because all too often just regular Muslims who love and want to be genuine are targeted as well.  We need to understand that all people deserve to practice their religion and that there are extremists at different levels in all religions.  We need to understand that there is a difference in culture as well which affect the religions.  Some cannot distinguish between culture and religion.  The Muslim religion states that modesty should be depicted by both men and women.  It does not state that women should have their hair covered as well as their entire bodies.  Canada is a free country and needs to stay that way.  We too often accept others and their cultures which is contrary to ours in the mistaken notion that it is religion rather than culture.  People can wear what they want which should not be enforced upon them.  Children here are not property.  We cannot have a society that is not tolerant of others, but we also have to recognize what our values are and to not be ashamed to fight for our rights in a civilized manner.  We need to start teaching all organized world religions in schools by eduators who have degrees with sufficient knowledge in the topics without biases.  We need to have students share their own views to learn to be able to do so without violence, but with a thirst for knowledge and respect.  

I am still in the Christmas spirit.  I just want to let you know that I have not forgotten you.  What do you think?


INFIDEL Official Trailer (2020) Jim Caviezel Movie

Tuesday, 23 December 2025

Today is my last day of work - Merry Christmas World

 Today is it, my last day of work.  It has been challenging trying to close down a practice, get all my shopping done and well, squeezing in some fun while fighting a never ending cold/cough.  I think I did it.  I am still debating if I should stay with AAMFT as a retired person.  Even though I told them no, I still get all the emails.  I will get all the same benefits if I stay with them.  I can decide later.  So much as been about staying with Associations or not and which will benefit me or them.  I have an incredible amount of data for every condition -  grief, couple therapy, addictions, etc....I will decide who will benefit from all that I have.  I am donating my huge desk which cost me a small fortune and is too big for me now.  I am also donating all my psychology and therapy books.   I am looking forward to this next phase.  But, let's talk Christmas, my favourite season.  This morning I woke up to snow and it's beautiful outside.  I was concerned that we wouldn't have a white Christmas.  It simply wouldn't be the same.  I have been thinking of all the wonderful people that have been in my life and who contributed so much to my growth.  I know that this time of the year is also very difficult for too many.   I have been also thinking and visiting with those who are important to me and in my life.  I miss having pets, but the timing isn't right.  I just hope no stray shows up at my door, because I know that I could not keep the door closed.  As I looked at my calender yesterday, I couldn't believe I did as much as I did and it was no wonder that I had been exhausted.  So, for now, I just want to say Merry Christmas.  What do you think?