During the weekend I watched this investigative report about two people who are causing so much harm. I have spent most of my life helping people in one way or another, but to see two fools manipulating and hurting so many people who are suffering took the cake. If they were in Ontario it would be easy. They would be reported and even if their clause of having no therapists would not protect them. However, they are in the States, but the IRS will be the first step. Family Services should also be notified. What they are doing is manipulating people who have gone to them for help. First of all, children who have been sexually abused are never at fault. Children grow up and feel responsible when they shouldn't. Children are sexual beings and preditors know this and take advantage of this. They are the only ones responsible. To make such a stupid and ignorant statement to adults who have suffered sexual abuse and get paid for it, well there is a place for such people. Degrading people and abusing them is not love. It is demeaning and hurtful. I couldn't believe they were convincing people to change their gender for their search for love. Where is that sign I posted "Bang your head here." I could not believe the harm that these two arrogant and ignorant people are causing just for money. So, this is the advice I am going to give you today. When you want to find help for whatever is bothering you, check out the credentials. What do they have a degree in? Now they have hired a PHD LCol American retired Officer. She is not qualified. You need to be qualified in the area you are working. I understand that people are lonely in todays society. I suggest you find a therapist to help you and make sure the person is registered and there is a governing party. Get off the computer and go out and meet people. Take a course for interest where there are actual people. Join a support group but ensure that there are no ulterior motives. If there is any kind of bashing look elsewhere. Fraudsters are now charging lots of money which seems legitimate but isn't. Any organization which discourages keeping in contact with your family - is a big red flag. At the top of my head that is it for now. Oh, wait. PTSD cannot be "cured" in one session. PTSD is a physical response to trauma. So when you hear bozos talking nonsence please do not believe it. Do some basic research. Take care of yourself. Surround your self with positive influences. Don't confuse abuse with love.
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