73% of community self thought of suicide of eight. 60% did not have a mental health diagnosis. 70% of moms did not know that children thought of suicide. Children as young as six, understand the concepts of death and suicide. Where do children learn about suicide? They learn it by video games, on line and my own experience with children includes watching television.
Welcome Parent - Child Discord: Transform the experience of Conflict Part 1- V116. Psychologists Drs Kat Scherer and Elizabeth Sylvester website :relationship based treatment.com Relationship - Based Treatment of children and their parents: Integrating neurobiology, attachment, regulation and discipline. Do I embrace conflict? No one really loves it. May feel disreguated, avoid it. Personal history activates. Some of us are very sensitive (therapists). 50/50 in session of conflict resolution. Book: The Power of Discord.Children will learn comfort and skills. : Unrealistic expectations of child. Embarassed others see this conflict. Children learn how to feel and regulate discomfort. Communicate and seek resolution. Diverse opinion - expansive and creative. Self awareness and interception, reconnection and repair is possible. We can surpress children. What happens is the child becomes a people pleaser to avoid conflict which is not healthy. Conflict resolution - promotes growth, standing up to herself (child) is ok. It promotes self esteem. Their perspective is worthy of being heard. Learn where there is different desires - respect growth, and compassion for others. Learning to listen, take a break, conflict and resolution helps to understand all family members. It teaches that parents boundaries are positive. Eg. nine year old female is explosive - curses and screams and tears things. Parents are stressed, irritated and angry. They are also worried, fearful; guilty. The child is also miserable. She feels like she is a bad girl and kind of stuck. Heated moments: when we experience conflict we are in a poor state for addressing it; when calm the conflict feels distant. (as usual any errors are mine alone)
To be continued ...........
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